12 Simple Tips For Relationship Bliss

How do we make our relationship work?

One of the most common questions we hear is, "How do we make our relationship work?" The answers are complicated, varied, and, after a while, can start to sound like muddled platitudes. But these common place sayings get repeated because they work. With this in mind, we pulled together 12 cliches that, in fact, reveal simple, tried-and-true advice for having a healthy, happy relationship.

1. Mind your manners. "Please," "thank you" and "you're welcome," can go a long way in helping your partner remember that you respect and love him and don't take him for granted.

2. Variety is the spice of life. Studies have shown that dullness can lead to dissatisfaction with a relationship. Trying something new can be as simple as visiting an unfamiliar restaurant or as grand as a backpacking trip through Sri Lanka. Discoveries you make together will keep you feeling close.

3. The couple that plays together, stays together. Find a sport or hobby that you both love (no, watching TV does not count) and make that a priority in your relationship. Camping, biking, building model trains... whatever it is, find something you enjoy doing together.

4. Fight right. In order to have productive arguments, keep these rules in mind. Don't call your spouse names. When things get really tough, take a break from the argument. Let the other person finish his/her sentences. Don't initiate a discussion when you're angry

5. I'll scratch your back if you scratch mine. No one likes demands (unless you're in a BDSM role play), but everyone can appreciate a compromise. If you want your lover to do something and you're not sure he'll be agreeable, the quickest way to avoid a confrontation is to sweeten the deal. For example: "Sure, I'll watch Monday Night Football if you take me to see the next movie of my choice."

6. Two heads are better than one. Being in a relationship basically means you've made a merger; you've not only joined assets but inherited the other's problems as well. Rather than looking at his problems as merely his own, tackle them together. For example, if he's gaining weight, rather than pushing him to diet on his own, enroll in an exercise program together.

8. Sound it out. It other words: communicate! Talking out the tough subjects—money, religion, fidelity, raising kids—will not be the most fun you've had, but it'll be valuable

9. Laughter is the best medicine. Learn to laugh at yourself and at silly mistakes. If he throws your $300 cashmere sweater in the dryer, laughing it off is, in the long run, better than getting angry. It's is just a $300 cashmere sweater, not the end of the world.

10. Keep your eyes on the prize. Yes, he forgot your co-worker's name for the tenth time, but it probably doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. If you keep your perspective fixed on the goal—to be in a happy, functioning partnership—you're less likely to get tangled up in every minor annoyance. Remember, you both want the same thing.

11. Quitters never win. Find a ritual and keep it alive, no matter what. Whether it's always kissing each other good night, renewing wedding vows every year, sleeping in as late as you want once a month or committing to having sex once a week, pick something that makes you both feel good and stick to it, even when you're tempted to skip. 

12. When the going gets tough, the tough get going... to therapy. Studies show that couples who seek counseling during rocky periods are more successful in resolving their issues than those who don't. Whether its from a religious figure, counselor or mental health professional, getting an expert to help sort out strife is as wise as forgoing self-installation and hiring a plumber to put in a new sink.

Give Him a Night to Remember

Romantic Game for Lovers

As exciting as your love life has been since you first got together, often times after a few years the spark needs to be rekindled. If you and your lover have gotten into a sexual rut, you can spice up the sex by using role play games to get him hot all over again, and it's much simpler than you think to do. Want to do something special for your lover that he's not expecting? Role play is the most adventurous way to excite and tantalize him on a special night, so for Valentines Day, your anniversary, or just for fun, set up a night to remember using this step by step guide for the fantasy of picking up a stranger in a bar:

Start by making reservations at a hotel near the bar, and then leave exciting little notes around the house to tell him what to do. The first one should be some where he will see it as soon as he comes home. It should read something along the lines of simply “I have a surprise for you in the bedroom."
When he goes into the bedroom, leave a note on the bed saying “someone wants to meet you. Look in the closet." In the closet, a note pinned to his favorite shirt-or yours- reads “Wear this after you take a shower."

In the bathroom, there is a note on the shower curtain. “Go to the (insert name of bar here at time)." By now he's probably wondering what you have in store for him, and he's excited about the prospect of a surprise. Wear his favorite sexy dress and make sure you're sitting where he can't see you when he gets to the bar, but sit somewhere that you can see the door so you'll know when he comes in-keep the other vultures at bay by telling them you're waiting for someone. Have a couple drinks and think about what you've got planned for the evening. Relax and have fun.
When your lover gets to the bar, side up to him, pretending you don't know him. Ask them something like-"Want to buy a lady a drink?" you can flirt a little with the other guys, or do whatever comes naturally to the two of you, he may get into the spirit of the game right away, recognizing it for what it is, but make sure you both don't do anything that will arouse suspicion or jealousy later, that's not what this is about. Continue the game until you decide to leave together.
As he walks you to the car, tell him you've reserved a room. You can have the room ready with massage oils, sex toys, champagne, and chocolates, anything you've thought of to make the night memorable. Strip him and give him a massage, take a shower together, and draw out the night any way your imagination takes you.

Attract the man or woman you want by sending out signals

Quick Dating Tips

If you like some one you may have to ask them for a date. For men this is standard practise and for women, this process is becoming increasingly common. If you are thinking of asking someone on a date consider the following quick dating tips:

1. Why are you asking them out, is it for the right reasons and what do you expect as a result of them saying yes or no?

2. Be prepared that the person you ask may say no and in which case do not take the rejection personally.

3. When asking someone out choose your moment carefully and practise what you might say in advance so that you don't appear tongue-tied.

4. If the person you ask says yes, ensure you already have thought of a place, date and time for the date so that you display signs of thoughfulness.

5. Be prepared for the person asking why you want to date them so that you are able to flatter and create a sense of trust immediately. People can be wary and they may want to know some reasosn behind your request. Better, anticipate this by saying "would you like to come to dinner, I have always thought you are great fun..".

6. Make sure that your request for a date does not pressurize the person in any way. If they want to think about it, let them. But don't chase.

7. Make sure that when you ask someone on a date you smile and keep things fun and happy. Being confident and smiley will elicit a far more positive response.

8. Always have an alternative date and time or location in mind should the person be unsure of their diary. Giving a person a choice is often a marketing masterstroke.

9. If the person says no, don't chase for a reason, simply move on. They may think about things and get back to you with a yes response later.

10. If you ask someone on a date, make sure that you actually intend to go through with it. Standing people up is not allowed.

11. If you are being asked out don't play games. If you need time to consider the offer then say so. If you want to say no, say no. But do not keep someone hanging on for no reason. You wouldn't like the situation if it was reversed.

12. Try to avoid dutch-courage such as using alcohol to boost your courage levels as this will often backfire.

13. Don't ask someone out when they are in a group of friends. Timing is everything.

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