Attract the man or woman you want by sending out signals

Quick Dating Tips

If you like some one you may have to ask them for a date. For men this is standard practise and for women, this process is becoming increasingly common. If you are thinking of asking someone on a date consider the following quick dating tips:

1. Why are you asking them out, is it for the right reasons and what do you expect as a result of them saying yes or no?

2. Be prepared that the person you ask may say no and in which case do not take the rejection personally.

3. When asking someone out choose your moment carefully and practise what you might say in advance so that you don't appear tongue-tied.

4. If the person you ask says yes, ensure you already have thought of a place, date and time for the date so that you display signs of thoughfulness.

5. Be prepared for the person asking why you want to date them so that you are able to flatter and create a sense of trust immediately. People can be wary and they may want to know some reasosn behind your request. Better, anticipate this by saying "would you like to come to dinner, I have always thought you are great fun..".

6. Make sure that your request for a date does not pressurize the person in any way. If they want to think about it, let them. But don't chase.

7. Make sure that when you ask someone on a date you smile and keep things fun and happy. Being confident and smiley will elicit a far more positive response.

8. Always have an alternative date and time or location in mind should the person be unsure of their diary. Giving a person a choice is often a marketing masterstroke.

9. If the person says no, don't chase for a reason, simply move on. They may think about things and get back to you with a yes response later.

10. If you ask someone on a date, make sure that you actually intend to go through with it. Standing people up is not allowed.

11. If you are being asked out don't play games. If you need time to consider the offer then say so. If you want to say no, say no. But do not keep someone hanging on for no reason. You wouldn't like the situation if it was reversed.

12. Try to avoid dutch-courage such as using alcohol to boost your courage levels as this will often backfire.

13. Don't ask someone out when they are in a group of friends. Timing is everything.

What Men Find Attractive in a Woman

What Men Find Attractive in a Woman - The Secrets to Get a Guy to Like You

By Tina L. Jones

Do you think that being a nice girl will get a guy to like you? Do you know how to be the 'bad girl' that he would like? Have you wondered what about other women that are attracting men? Everyone taught us from a young age that women are to act nice, police and do whatever a guy wants to please him.
This advice might have worked years ago when you had no control over a relationship and all you could do is hope that the guy you like was attracted to you. Today it's not quite the same. It seems that all the rules of dating or a relationship has changed dramatically and you might be behind the times and have to learn the new rules so you can get a guy to like you instead of all the other girls he comes across.
Back in the day when the rules were very clear you really didn't have to work too hard. If you cleaned the house good, hosted get together's with friends and a loving mother you had the qualifications to be a good wife. Times have changed and now you can discover these secrets to romance. First of all, you have to believe in yourself and make yourself attractive. You cannot just sit back and hope that a relationship will develop and that everything will turn out okay. You have to be aggressive in your actions to learn how attraction works how you can employ it to get a guy to like you. If you understand how to get the laws of attraction working for you then you will have many more options. You deserve to get a man that is all that you want and you can if you believe in yourself.
To go about getting a man a woman will need to learn about men. When you can figure out how men think, what they like and what will attract a man to you then you are ready to get a relationship going in the right direction. Learn all you can about him and his wants and interests. Learn to anticipate what he will do or say. Get emotionally attuned to your man. If you don't do this you will not understand his intentions and this relationship could crash and burn. He can and will move on to another girl that might understand him.
If you think that your dating life isn't what it should be you have to:
Change the way you are thinking about guys.
Try to look at attraction or a relationship from his point of view.
Keep trying until you have succeeded in attracting the guy of your dreams.
If things are not up to par in your love life nothing will change unless you change the way you are looking at things. You can be that woman that gets what she is looking for.
If you are looking for a system to make every man adore you, chase you, love you, and commit to you, click Unforgettable Woman Advice. If you're ready for a highly effective method that's different from what every else is teaching, click 77 Secrets to Attract and Keep Him Now. You don't want to miss this!
This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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